How can you control yourself if you are married and find someone other than your spouse attractive? This question was asked so many times, and it is really an interesting question for those people who are married or just married or going to be married? or the young bachelors. The question is answered by a married woman in her own words —
“Yes, I am a married woman and also a mother of three and a half years of twin boys.”
“Some time ago, I went to a family meeting of an acquaintance in “Maika” (Maternal home) with husband. There, I met a distant relative who is older than me and in a live-in relationship.”
When we had a conversation, something like this happened.
Relative: Yashodhara (Name of the Married Woman), I think you made a mistake by marrying a man older than you. He is older and mature than you.
Me: yes? I did not understand?
Relative: Hey, tomorrow when your children will grow up and you will start working again and you find a boy of your age?
Relatives: Hey, it’s natural that both of you can be attracted to each other.
Me: Yes, this is happening.
Relative: How can you say with such a claim?
Me: I know myself better than others.
Now, I ask you. Why is any man, woman or man attracted to someone else outside of marriage?
The answer is very simple. When someone ignores the goodness of their spouse, they only find flaws in them. When he feels nothing attracted to his spouse. They consider their married life as nothing but just a compromise.
I know how much I love my husband. I see his goodness, not their flaws, and that is enough for me that I am not going to be attracted to anyone else.
It is natural to be fascinated by looking at one’s personality or form, but there is a difference between mind and heart control in attraction and fascination.
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